“So what would you have said to this woman?” I asked. “Well,” he paused. “I might have said something like this if I were counseling her: ‘The problem with your lesbian desires is not that you’re desperately craving human love (though we must not overlook even here the deceptive possibility of idolatry). The problem is that your good desire for human love is bent, broken—like all human desires to one degree or another. You need to be resocialized into the human community of the church. Your desire